As I pen this post, I find myself reflecting on the profound journey of the past year till now. It has been a time filled with both sorrow and healing, as I’ve faced the heart-wrenching loss of several near and dear ones. Each passing has left an indelible mark on my heart, and penning some of their obituaries has been a bittersweet process. While it has often brought tears to the eyes, it has also offered a sense of closure, allowing us to celebrate their lives and the moments we shared.

Writing about loved ones who have passed is a poignant reminder of the fragile beauty of life. It forces us to confront the reality of our mortality and the inevitable cycle of life and death. In doing so, we learn that grief is not just an expression of sadness; it is also an act of love. Each word written has served as a tribute to their legacies, a way to keep their memories alive in our hearts and those of others.

In the midst of this journey of remembrance, I am reminded of the Chinese tradition of Cheng Beng, or Ching Ming, which is a time for honouring ancestors and loved ones who have gone before us. This festival, often marked by families visiting gravesites, cleaning tombs, and making offerings, is a beautiful expression of love and respect. It serves as a powerful reminder that while our loved ones may no longer be with us in body, their spirits continue to guide and inspire us.

As we gather to pay tribute during Cheng Beng, we not only honour those who have passed but also reaffirm the bonds that connect us through generations. It’s a time to reflect on the lessons they imparted, the laughter we shared, and the love that remains etched in our hearts.

I encourage anyone who has experienced loss to embrace the process of remembrance. Whether through writing, visiting a gravesite, or simply sharing stories with family and friends, we can find solace in honouring those we have loved and lost. Life is indeed a circle, and in our memories, our beloved ones continue to live on, shaping who we are and how we navigate the world.

Let us cherish the time we have and celebrate the lives of those who have touched our hearts. In doing so, we not only heal ourselves but also keep their spirits alive in our lives.